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10 Quick Ways To Size Him Up
Top 10 must-read tips for forming first impressions.
by Savannah Ashour
5. CARNAL FOREKNOWLEDGE
“In 10 seconds,” says Sheldon Burman, director and founder of Chicago’s Male Sexual Dysfunction Clinic, “I can tell you his sexual orientation, I can tell you if he’s an enthusiastic sexual participant, I can tell you if he’s seething with rage.”
Short of scheduling an appointment with Dr. Burman, how can amateurs judge a potential bedmate? Warning signals include a sallow complexion, labored breathing, shaky hands, poor coordination, or the general appearance of poor health. According to Burman, “if they look unwell, they’re probably not functioning sexually.”
6. BEYOND BONE STRUCTURE
Deborah Gunther, who practices the ancient Chinese art of facial reading, says there are countless ways to gauge a person’s character through his face. A mouth full of curves is a sign of a sense of humor. Watch out for large, round nostrils, which could mean he can’t hold onto money, or a jaw that is wider than his forehead, which signals a dictatorial personality. Thin lips can point to emotional repression, while fuller lips signal sensuality; and if you can see the inside of his lip when his mouth is closed, he may be promiscuous.
7. HEAR ME ROAR
Our reaction to a man’s voice is often instinctive and immediate. According to Sam Chwat, director of New York Speech Improvement Services, the response is primal: “Humans react differently to an animal that whimpers than to an animal that oars.”
However, Chwat notes, though one might interpret a soft voice as a sign of timidity, it could signal a willingness to listen. Similarly, an overly strident, forceful delivery might be his way of compensating for insecurity. (There could be a tiny mouse hidden inside that great big lion!)
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1 Celly // Jan 1, 2007 at 2:07 am
Burneda, u get what u deserve. what are you doing on someone else’s turf? Get your own man and leave the married ones alone
2 Irina // Oct 30, 2006 at 4:42 am
Single female teachers live in confusing times and these messages seem to be excellent source of advice . Getting thru classes without having a male student hit on you is at issue but it’s a way to make my boyfriend jealous . That a student admits he wanted to have sex with me whenever he saw me by the way made him also say he wanted to kiss me so I asked where , LOL !
Now he invited me to BALI so I guess its
a way to get to know him outside the classroom environment which at times is so sterile. Dating a student seems to be the norm so it’s finally my turn to take a shot at it … Oh -la-la !
3 Irina // Oct 30, 2006 at 4:41 am
Single female teachers live in confusing times and these messages seem to be excellent source of advice . Getting thru classes without having a male student hit on you is at issue but it’s a way to make my boyfriend jealous . That a student admits he wanted to have sex with me whenever he saw me by the way made him also say he wanted to kiss me so I asked where , LOL !
Now he invited me to BALI so I guess its
a way to get to know him outside the classroom environment which at times is so sterile. Dating a student seems to be the norm so it’s finally my turn to take a shot at it … Oh -la-la !
4 Nunya // Oct 29, 2006 at 3:38 pm
Sorry to say but you got what you deserved. I’m so sick of sleazeballs getting away with this, but for you women who overlook the guys that are “too nice” or “sort of boring” always get you just desserts.
5 BURNEDA // Oct 15, 2006 at 10:49 pm
I agree with the posted topics. I met a guy who had a personality out of this world. He had sexuality out of this world; however, I was evaluating him in mind and i was thinking how much fun he really was, but I sensed something was wrong. He asked me why he always calls me, and yet he also bragged about all the women he had.So there was red flag number one, I still continued to sleep with him because the sex was so good but guess what ?I still got attatched and I still got hurt, he returned to his wife without informing me aswell .So go with your instinct we all have one from the moment we meet someone we know if we are playing with fire. Dont just sit there and wait for them to screw you over. Dont engage in the relationship. Dont do it no matter how much charm they have. You may get some good sex out of it but that’s it!