Fresh Ideas for a First Date

by Kristine Kern

1. Taking a new guy to a baseball game. This scored high on the Dave-o-meter. “Sports venues are an excellent way to experience straight men in their natural habitats,” he says. “With their guards down, they’re likely having fun and feeling good. Plus, chances are you’ll get credit for being a good sport.”

2. Meeting in Central Park on a warm evening for a bike ride. Dave totally approved of this idea: “Plan to do something that reveals your spirit,” he advises, “whether it’s an athletic activity or an outdoor concert.” So far, so good. The problem was that I’m a highly competitive rider, and the guy couldn’t keep up.

3. Going to a roller disco one night. The guy and I had already established an easygoing rapport by phone, so both of us were more willing than usual to make complete fools of ourselves on roller skates. It was a great first date, and got two thumbs-up from Dave: “Lively, spontaneous, unpredictable.”

Dave’s three first-date no-no’s:

1. Movies: There’s no opportunity to talk.