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The Etiquette of Oral Sex
The ups, downs and in-betweens of oral sex.
by Ky Henderson
There may be no intimate act portrayed more unfavorably in the media than oral sex. Every time it’s in the news, people who shouldn’t be doing it are doing it somewhere they shouldn’t be doing it.
Bill Clinton and Monica Lewinsky ruined cheap dresses and expensive cigars in the Oval Office. Chloe Sevigny serviced the ever-grimy Vincent Gallo— with no camera tricks—at the end of the atrocious 2003 film The Brown Bunny.
And, as a report released late last year by the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) revealed, half the teenagers in America are having oral sex, quite possibly in the rec room.
But even years of bad publicity can’t explain why this particular act is often a source of dissatisfaction and anxiety for couples. Oral sex is arguably even more intimate than intercourse.
It can be intensely pleasurable for men and—because of direct clitoral stimulation that’s all but impossible during intercourse—especially women.
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1 Robert Wm. King // Nov 22, 2008 at 4:17 pm
my girl just emailed me “she wants the whole of me in her mouth” I responded then what does she plan on doing with it? and did she know any tricks? Is that chauvenistic of me or should I just be happy to be there?
2 Robert Wm. King // Nov 22, 2008 at 4:05 pm
ETIQUETTE: I DIDN’T THINK I SHOULD “bow” and she “cirtsey” first before we go down, but then what ever it takes ………..
3 Tanya // Nov 17, 2008 at 3:53 pm
I just have to say that at the end of the article it says “don’t tell him what you want while his head is down there, but before!” but I think its ok to tell him/instruct him while he is down there. I actually had a guy tell me this. So go ahead ladies! Tell em what you like! and anytime!
4 Blogger Crush: Girl With A One-Track Mind // Aug 23, 2008 at 11:00 am
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5 Dark // Aug 5, 2008 at 9:04 pm
I give my boyfriend oral all the time. Not only does he enjoy it (duh) but I love doing it myself so its all good. The key is in the enthusiasm. Plus, its a good way to get your motor running for some good sex
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