The Etiquette of Oral Sex

The ups, downs and in-betweens of oral sex.

by Ky Henderson

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The poor woman confesses that oral activity always leads to good ol’ fashioned sex. But does it also mean she must go down on him every night? Not by a long shot.

Their arrangement works because both people end up satisfied.Regardless of the politics in your bedroom, the point is to give oral sex, and yourself, and your partner, a chance.

“Don’t let fear determine what you do—let pleasure,” suggests Dr. Sharna L. Striar, a certified sex therapist in New York City. “It’s fun, it adds variety, it heightens pleasure. But it’s a very intimate act, and because one person is so exposed, it’s also very private. So you need to communicate your wants and needs.”

But please, do so before going down on your partner. It’s not polite to talk with … well, you get the idea.

 
 
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  • 1 Robert Wm. King // Nov 22, 2008 at 4:17 pm

    my girl just emailed me “she wants the whole of me in her mouth” I responded then what does she plan on doing with it? and did she know any tricks? Is that chauvenistic of me or should I just be happy to be there?

  • 2 Robert Wm. King // Nov 22, 2008 at 4:05 pm

    ETIQUETTE: I DIDN’T THINK I SHOULD “bow” and she “cirtsey” first before we go down, but then what ever it takes ………..

  • 3 Tanya // Nov 17, 2008 at 3:53 pm

    I just have to say that at the end of the article it says “don’t tell him what you want while his head is down there, but before!” but I think its ok to tell him/instruct him while he is down there. I actually had a guy tell me this. So go ahead ladies! Tell em what you like! and anytime!

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  • 5 Dark // Aug 5, 2008 at 9:04 pm

    I give my boyfriend oral all the time. Not only does he enjoy it (duh) but I love doing it myself so its all good. The key is in the enthusiasm. Plus, its a good way to get your motor running for some good sex ;-)
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