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Marrying Mr. Wrong
She thought he was "the one." Did relationship red flags indicate otherwise?
by Isabel Rose
“I don’t like to answer dumb questions,” he says. Then he adds, “There’s nothing wrong with silence. Sometimes I think you say things just to hear the sound of your own voice. I’m sure you don’t really care what I think of Jennifer Lopez. It’s all right for two people to be together without talking.”
“Actually, it’s boring,” I want to say. Actually, silence frightens me. Actually, his silence, in particular, frightens me because it makes me feel isolated and depressed. When he goes silent, I stop feeling him; it’s as if he becomes a sudden stranger.
RED FLAG #4, MAY 1996—PARIS
We have a lovely day and a lovely evening that concludes at a lovely restaurant, which my boyfriend pays
for, and then we get back to our lovely hotel room and get in bed.
With the lights out, I whisper, “Did you forget something?”
He says, “What do you mean?”
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1 Nada // Aug 17, 2008 at 5:07 pm
I see the critism girl and I don’t see a reason to even ready 15 pages of this on-line if you don’t think you do or think that you can relate to it just by the beginning episode. I sometimes too feel like I’m in the same element and don’t know what to do, maybe not every aspect like you is not the same but I can absolutely relate. Keep your head up.
2 ela // Aug 15, 2008 at 6:09 am
um… i love how you’re in the hamptons but your couch is from ikea. everything else about your failed marriage makes sense now.
3 Russ // Aug 6, 2008 at 5:14 pm
This article sounds like the ramblings of an incredibly self-absorbed woman whose perceived emotional wants trumped any chance for a real, independent life.
Your ex sounds like an interesting guy with a lot to offer. Too bad you only accepted him begrudgingly.
4 Mom who cares // Jul 18, 2008 at 1:51 pm
My daughter is marrying a Man she meet in college. The first year of the relationship they were fighting alot, ending in a bad break up where they were very nasty to each other. They weren’t speaking for 6 months and decided to be friends, over the last ten months, they say the both they worked things out and have been dating for the last 6 months. they meet fresman year in college it will be 3 years total known each other. Yikes…..any suggestions, without pushing them closer together in a them against the world kind of way?
5 Karin // Jul 13, 2008 at 2:10 pm
The red flags should have been for him. She is the one that didn’t like to hike, talked to much, couldn’t even enjoy a trip to Paris….poor idiot.
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