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The Beginner’s Guide to Massage
Make your partner's week with these massage pointers.
by Sarika Dani
Kneading
Lift folds of flesh between the thumb and fingertips, squeeze, and release, working in a circle. Repeat, alternating hands in the same area to create a rhythmic, rolling sensation—just like kneading bread.
Percussion
The dreaded “karate chop” should feel more like a gentle rain than a thunderstorm, according to Inkeles. Cushion your thumping stroke by striking your fisted hand onto your flat hand as it rests on your partner’s body. Or bend your hands into upside-down cups and pummel gently to create vibrations that awaken nerves and control stress.
hink of massage as a thoughtful exploration of your lover’s body, rather than a task that must be completed in order to get your turn. Generosity beats strength and skill: Repeating simple strokes and massaging for at least an hour will give more pleasure than attempting complicated movements.
“Most people don’t see massage on the menu of life. We tend to rush our pleasures,” adds Inkeles. “What could be more precious than having someone who is generous enough to focus on the needs of all your body parts?”
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1 dora_rice // Jun 1, 2008 at 9:58 am
A good massage from someone you love is heaven.
2 Anonymous // May 13, 2006 at 3:14 pm
WE take turns massaging each other, and sometimes use a small heat/vibrating massager for the large muscle groups. Very therapeutic and sensual, as well!
3 Anonymous // May 13, 2006 at 3:11 pm
I offer my lover a full body massage at least once a month, and lesser ones nightly. It sets a lovely mood, and allows him to relax and enjoy the TRIP. It also turns me on to caress his body!!