Infusing Fantasy into Your Sex Life

Act out fantasies together, as imagination enhances our sex lives.

by Ky Henderson

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Sex can get routine in a long-term relationship, but when you know and trust someone, you can also be more adventuresome,” Davidson says. “If something goes wrong and you’re both adult enough to say, ‘Well, that sucked,’ and move on, then you have a playmate and partner with whom it’s safe to take leaps.”

So next time you’re hesitant to reveal an innocuous fantasy, remember one thing: If you want to pretend to have sex with underage students, cats, or—God forbid—underage cats, there’s no better partner in crime than your mate.

*Names in this story have been changed.


Ky Henderson is a writer in New York City.

 
 
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  • 5 Lucretia // Oct 28, 2006 at 4:30 pm

    I just want to say that i am a normal person but sometimes i wonder if something is wrong with me.I visited your site today to find answers and i believe i did.I fantasize of making love to alot of different men while making love with my boyfriend.I will take your advice and keep it my little secret.

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