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Anal Sex For Beginners
An estimated one-fourth of straight couples have had anal sex. How-to advice.
by Ky Henderson
They’re the three little words millions of lonely hearts long to hear. Words that imply a great deal of mutual trust, caring, and comfort. Words that could change your love life forever …
“Let’s do anal.”
Experts estimate one in four straight couples have had anal sex, arguably making it the most popular of sexual taboos. Yet while many people are at the very least curious enough to try it, few go about it the right way. The result? They have a negative experience, and never do it again.
In order to enjoy anal sex, couples need to have some idea of what they’re doing, and to be able to communicate with each other. Of course, talking frankly about a ding-dong in a yoo-hoo can be tough. “Our asses carry with them so much cultural baggage,” says Tristan Taormino, author of The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex For Women. “Most of us are taught at a young age that our butts are dirty, that they shouldn’t be shared with others, that they are not a source of pleasure—all of which aren’t true.”
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1 asdf // Sep 25, 2008 at 4:17 am
I’m a guy and I have played around with my share of girls. Anal for me does not feel physically as good as vaginal. It is a lot hotter though.
There seems to be two main reasons why guys insist on anal, the right way and the wrong way.
The right way is the guy and the girl are pervs and just love the feelings that come along with it. I like to think of myself as a perv. A woman begging to be fucked in the ass is about the hottest thing on the planet to me.
The wrong way is to be a dick and a woman hater and get off on dominating or punishing women via anal sex. Judging from the responses there are still a few too many of these types out there.
Obviously you need to be safe, use lube, have a little patience and use a condom (even in monogamous relationships, you don’t want a urinary infection).
As for all the negative nancies in here spreading fear, uncertainty and doubt about anal sex, I have to thank them in a way because without their tireless bible thumping it wouldn’t be so dirty and sexy.
2 smoke // Sep 24, 2008 at 10:46 am
ANAL SEX….UMMMMM….well lets just say I couldn’t live without it. It such a different type of orgasm and as long as you know how to properly maintain yourself it’s not dirty in the least bit. I can’t stand to see comments made by small minded people who’ve never even given it a try. I bet they’re scared they just might like it.
3 Kenny // Sep 18, 2008 at 8:40 pm
Anal sex is a fantasy of many women… even the most innocent!
4 pinksgirlfriend // Sep 17, 2008 at 5:31 pm
anal is good… my bf is 14 years younger than me and when we met i had talked about anal, he had never done it and acted like it was dirty! well 4 years later he finally wanted to try it and he loves it! imagine that! lol
5 lorilou // Sep 15, 2008 at 6:56 pm
Married for 22 years and Sex was getting stressful because I was feeling like I was pleasing him with Oral and Regular sex but he was coming to fast for me to get pleasure. We where about to break up. I needed more. We just out of the blue tried Anal sex for the first time. It hurt but I loved it and wanted to do it again but my Husband did not like it at first because he thought it was dirty. But we tried it again and I was more relaxed and WOW!!!!! I think it saved our Marriage. But I can’t stop thinking about it. I want it all the time. My husband is liking it too now.
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