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Anal Sex For Beginners
An estimated one-fourth of straight couples have had anal sex. How-to advice.
by Ky Henderson
Sex toys can augment the experience. Nonporous, easy-to-clean silicone is the best material for butt plugs, vibrators, or dildos; a flared base will prevent an awkward trip to the ER for, uh, extraction. “We started with a small butt plug we got online,” says Heather, a 38-year-old New York City nonprofit executive who convinced her husband—yes, he was the wary one—to try anal. “Then we moved on to sex, and it was totally unique. I have to do it in a place where no one else is around because I’m worried about people hearing me—I’m always a lot louder.”
No single position is ideal, but the receiver should be in control. Missionary works; woman-on-top lets her control the depth of penetration; and spooning allows the man a perfect angle. Doggie-style provides great G-spot stimulation, with the woman either on all fours or with her head on the bed and butt in the air (yogis call it “Foraging Anteater Pose”). To make sure the man doesn’t thrust too deep, he should enter, stop, and wait for her to get used to the feeling.
Or is it the other way around?
“The ass is the most democratic orifice—we all have one,” Taormino begins ominously. “What lots of men don’t realize is just how good it can feel for them, because the prostate gland can be directly stimulated. In fact, every man should get f—ed in the ass at least once before he dies.”
Which isn’t an idea the Voyeur is totally comfortable with. But turnabout is fair anal play.
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1 dagz // Jan 2, 2009 at 6:37 pm
anal sex is cool i know galz who would’nt have it any otherway and they love it orally, and from penitration most galz “at first prob wont like the idea” but it’s pleasureable for both. if u try and are patient & openminded
2 sarah rines // Dec 14, 2008 at 8:01 am
I’m 18 and my boyfriend has been trying to have anal sex with me for awhile.i’ve just heard it hurts.Does it take alot of time before it doesnt hurt?
3 Afshin Djeyfroudi // Dec 13, 2008 at 2:19 am
I am a 38 married white male. My wife will have nothing to do with anal sex, I havn’t tried but really want to.
4 Angel // Nov 22, 2008 at 2:44 am
sodomites is sin, just read 1 Timothy 1: 9-10..and the wage of sin is DEATH..that’s all I can say…beside there are million ways to enjoy sex why bother to choose this one.
5 Carly Morrell // Nov 19, 2008 at 6:29 pm
Me and my boyfriend just started trying anal sex, ( so good). We are both virgins so no STDs or anything, is it necessary to wear a condomn or should we basically not bother?
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