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by Ky Henderson
Alternatively, you could set up the camera on a tripod, but that may take some of the fun out of it. “Part of what makes it so exciting is getting frustrated with having the camera in the way, so that you finally throw it aside,” says Robert, a 37-year-old art dealer from Los Angeles.
While having sex with his girlfriend, Anya, on a vacation two years ago, he grabbed his digital point-and-shoot, which also could record 20 seconds of video. He shot just her face, without sound, and they enjoyed watching it so much that they bought a video camera. “It’s incredibly hot and fun to watch later and step back and wonder what she was thinking or feeling.”
So if taping sex makes it even more memorable, who needs a visual record lying around the house? Allow the otherwise eloquent Voyeur to hammer home the point by coining an asinine, yet incisive, phrase: After you embrace, erase.
Ky Henderson is a writer in New York City.
*Names in this story have been changed.
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1 Anonymous // May 3, 2006 at 1:28 pm
Bless your heart! You have been missing out if you always have sex with the lights out. Visual is one of the important senses during sex. Try turning the lights down instead of out. One or two small votive candles gives off alot of sexy light, yet hides the flaws.
2 Anonymous // Apr 30, 2006 at 12:59 am
This is a most revealing subject. Why would couple want to ruin the throes of passion with giggles. Furthermore, even in my teens, lights out, was a prerequisite for total abandoment in the sex act. A friend said, that it should be illegal for any one 35 or older to exhibit their bodies.
However, if you want to do a video swap i might be open to the idea of shedding light on a subject other than me and my guy. hahha