Threesomes: A User’s Guide

How to (really) manage a ménage a trois.

by Ky Henderson

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There are polyamory clubs all over the world; try googling “polyamory munch,” which sounds filthy but is actually a nonsexual gathering in which groups of people meet to discuss their interests and find potential partners. However, while many people recommend that the third person be a virtual stranger, the right friend can be an ideal partner as well.

 
 
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  • 1 JD // Sep 2, 2008 at 1:47 pm

    The 25-year-old repulsed historian has a skeletal grasp on turd man’s tool bag. Only a turd would be happy with this kind of crass inequity in a relationship.

    This boyfriend appears to be a waif in training. Perhaps he needs to investigate what the term ‘reciprocity’ means because the trade here screams ‘total con’.

    I agree with “Agile Cyborg.” Looks like yet another woman suckered a sucker man into a suck-fest relationship. Men these days…..all too often going on selfish womens’ crap rules. So, she got to fullfill her lesbien fetish, yet he couldn’t (or didn’t care enough)
    to want to fullfill he threesome desire? Wonder who I’d rather slap. Maybe both?

    Men these days. Such chumps.

  • 2 Agile Cyborg // Jul 31, 2008 at 7:08 pm

    ‘“Neither of us wanted to be with another guy, and the idea of him watching me and another woman was hot—but the idea of me watching him and another woman was repulsive,” says Janet, a 25-year-old historian. “So the rules were that he could watch us, direct us, and do anything he wanted to me. He was quite happy with that.”‘

    The 25-year-old repulsed historian has a skeletal grasp on turd man’s tool bag. Only a turd would be happy with this kind of crass inequity in a relationship.

    This boyfriend appears to be a waif in training. Perhaps he needs to investigate what the term ‘reciprocity’ means because the trade here screams ‘total con’.

  • 3 Johnson // Dec 31, 2007 at 2:30 pm

    “Hollywood rarely depicts sex accurately”

    Tell me about it. The article is about managing a threesome, but the photograph shows four people.

    Phhhhhhhhht.

  • 4 Anne // Feb 25, 2007 at 8:16 pm

    For the most part, I liked this article and I found it to be quite openminded. But I was bothered by the suggestion that someone looking for a purely-sexual, (most likely) one-time-only hook-up should seek this within the polyamory community. There most certainly are poly folk who are interested in casual sex, but as a whole, this is not what polyamory is about. Polyamory is about having multiple romantic relationships, not just multiple sexual partners. A couple seeking a stranger for a threesome would do better to check out a local swingers group or even Craigslist.

 
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