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Are Sex Parties The New Vibrator?
What happens when a virgin party-goer spends a Saturday night a-swingin'?
by Regina Lynn
Doing My Homework
Before The Big Night, I spent some time researching sex party culture and the various venues and organizers. I might be the only one with a fantasy-novel idea of the perfect party; why do other people go?
“A lot of women go to parties for the opportunity to play with other women,” says Vivian, a systems administrator in Oakland. “That’s one of the reasons I go. It’s not hard to find a guy to have sex with,” she adds, laughing.
Voyeur Events, which hosts invitation-only club parties in New York, reports a significant upswing in female-to-female contact after Madonna kissed Britney Spears and Christina Aguilera on the 2003 MTV Video Music Awards. Apparently, “situational bisexuality” is popular—but not required—at most sex parties.
Others go to try out fantasies in a safe, encouraging environment. “I think everyone has a fetish of some sort, even if you don’t know what it is yet,” says Shannon, a veteran of several Fetish Factory parties in Florida. “Even if you just go to watch and have a night out, these events are fun and interesting, something to talk about.”
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1 conqterror // Oct 5, 2008 at 12:53 pm
I do not understand why women make such a big deal to have sex with random guy out in the every day life. At some sex parties for women, a lot of women seems to go streight to stripper and began to have sex, without even getting aroused!!! What’s the problem with wifes??!!
2 Michael // Oct 5, 2008 at 3:11 am
She says, nicely,what I’ve known all along about swinger’s parties. They revolve around a woman’s wants and needs, and men are tolerated but not terribly welcome,
3 jdf // Sep 26, 2008 at 11:46 pm
It natural to have sex but it must be with love of the person with do it.
4 Squirt // Sep 22, 2008 at 10:43 pm
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5 Arji // Aug 15, 2008 at 4:29 pm
I find it funny that a woman here would think this disgusting when it’s totally a woman’s game. It appears she was taught sex is ugly and disgusting. What a shame. We’ve been swinging for nearly 8 years now and I have found that women have complete control over the whole situation. Men are there hoping to get lucky and women are there trying decide who to play with with so many opportunities. I consider myself very lucky to have a beautiful woman make advances towards me. It’s a privledge that I don’t take lightly and I treat the lady as respectfully as I would have my wife treated by other men. Generally, that’s how it goes. The most important rule at any of these parties is No MEANS NO!. These parties are carefully monitored by the hosts and people get kicked out if they don’t follow the rules. Single men aren’t typically invited because they tend to get aggressive and hit on evey woman they see. That’s not the way of the swinger party. You can accomplish more by merely being yourself and having fun. That’s how to get laid.
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