Hidden Camera: Good For Your Sex Life?

by Blane Bachelor

Any other major themes that emerged?

Yes, one in particular for the guys: If you want more sex, do more housework. It sounds so simple, but I still can’t believe how many men don’t get it. I love the joke abut the woman who dreams about a three-way, and one of the guys is doing the dishes, while one is doing the laundry. Figuratively speaking, a man wearing dishwashing gloves and an apron is porn for a woman. But there is a lot of truth in jokes.

Women are responsible for everything: the kids, the house, even if they’re working. It just amazed me that women would literally say to their partners, “I’m too tired to have sex,” and the men would expect them to get untired, instead of, saying, “Huh. So what can I do so that you won’t be tired?” That doesn’t cross their minds. It’s like women have to say, “See those dishes that are stacked up?”

So what happened to these couples who bared it all front of the camera?

We had examples of where their sex life improved and the relationship didn’t, and we had couples who were on the verge of breaking up get married. It showed that sex is always in the context of other things, and it affects other things. But it’s possible to have great sex in a lousy relationship. And no amount of sex is going to improve basic incompatibility.