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A Girl’s Guide to Anal Sex
Get the goods on joining the backdoor betty club.
by Jill Provost
One of my friends said Astroglide is not good for anal.
Glycerin-based lubes [like Astroglide] don’t last long enough. A silicone-based lubricant is going to be a lot better for anal sex. If you use one of the others, you have to stop, put more on, reenter… it’s just a mess.
Anal sex is probably a messy endeavor anyway, right?
No, no! I wouldn’t say so, but everybody thinks you’re going to have feces all over the place.
Really? Because I’ve heard stories.
Well, if she were constipated, yes. Otherwise, no, not if she has normal bowel functions. The anus does not usually have feces until it’s ready to evacuate.
Can all women orgasm from anal sex?
Every woman has the ability to orgasm, physiologically, because the space between her vagina and rectum is so thin that, in the doggie position, the penis is going to press up against her g-spot. Some women find it’s the easiest way to stimulate their g-spot.
So is that the position you’d recommend for women during anal?
For those just starting out, I think getting on all fours might be a little too intense, because she doesn’t have as much control. Lying on your side in the spooning position won’t allow penetration that’s as deep. It’s also a more relaxing position. When you become more comfortable, the doggie is the easiest way for a woman to orgasm.
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1 sexy s&j // Nov 14, 2008 at 7:33 pm
thx. 4 the tips me an
My bf have been trying and now we can!
2 Wood // Oct 30, 2008 at 6:03 am
My experience is that women who never had an orgasm in their life, often orgasm for the first time during anal sex. I have tried to become a master at performing the act. You MUST BE GENTLE, AND SENSITIVE TO HER. Taking your time, and stopping when necessary. If you do that, and wait until it starts to open….you will often have a women who will shock herself in how she responds. As a man….it is MIND BOGGLING the effect anal sex can have on a woman. If you do it right…they will BEG FOR IT…and I’m not kidding. The erotism is off the charts, and simultaneous orgasms are more common. If you know how to do it, the effect on both of you is almost SCARY.
I LOVE performing anal sex on a woman….it is AWESOME, but better yet…there is NOTHING LIKE SEEING A WOMAN OUT OF CONTROL WITH PASSSION! It’s my secret weapon that has NEVER FAILED!!!
3 barbilynn // Sep 28, 2008 at 10:19 am
I absolutely LOVE anal sex. It really offers me the most satisfying orgasms. A sexual romp isn’t complete for me without finishing with deep, thrusting anal sex with a hard penis. The feelings of fullness are overwhelming. Thankfully, I live in a relatively isolated area. I scream with delight when being penetrated anally. When I’m in a hotel, though, it’s a real problem as to the noise. When I don’t have a partner, I use a 3 prong ‘rabbit’ to fulfill my needs.
4 nottrusting // Sep 20, 2008 at 3:06 am
The comment about men losing it hit home. I tried twice and neither partner would use lube or stop when I scremed in pain. I would really like to try, but don’t trust men to STOP.
5 Amanda // Jul 17, 2008 at 4:50 am
She never implied that “women who don’t enjoy it, aren’t doing it right.”
She said, and I quote “Women who don’t enjoy anal sex, are probably doing it wrong.”
PROBABLY.
Not definitely.
Next time, pay attention, and read the whole thing.. word for word
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