A Girl’s Guide to Anal Sex

Get the goods on joining the backdoor betty club.

by Jill Provost

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Is it possible to hurt her if the penis is thrust too far in?
The penis is only so long! Contrary to what men believe, the average penis is five inches or less, erect. But if you’re talking an extra-long toy then, yes, it’s possible.

I think I just heard the male ego shatter. I found it interesting to learn that you can lose things in the butt. Does it happen often?
Not often, but it does happen. If people don’t use something with a wide base, it can slip in.

In your book, Pleasure: A Women’s Guide to Getting the Sex You Want, Need, and Deserve, you use the phrase, “being sucked in.” It’s not like a black hole, right? It sounds scary.
No! No! I mean, if something gets sucked in, you have to go to an emergency room most of the time to have it removed.

Have you heard any stories?
Oh all kinds of things: Light bulbs, various food items…

A light bulb?
Yeah. We couldn’t figure out how it got in there, but all kinds of things… I guess whatever’s handy at the time.

 
 
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  • 1 sexy s&j // Nov 14, 2008 at 7:33 pm

    thx. 4 the tips me an
    My bf have been trying and now we can!

  • 2 Wood // Oct 30, 2008 at 6:03 am

    My experience is that women who never had an orgasm in their life, often orgasm for the first time during anal sex. I have tried to become a master at performing the act. You MUST BE GENTLE, AND SENSITIVE TO HER. Taking your time, and stopping when necessary. If you do that, and wait until it starts to open….you will often have a women who will shock herself in how she responds. As a man….it is MIND BOGGLING the effect anal sex can have on a woman. If you do it right…they will BEG FOR IT…and I’m not kidding. The erotism is off the charts, and simultaneous orgasms are more common. If you know how to do it, the effect on both of you is almost SCARY.

    I LOVE performing anal sex on a woman….it is AWESOME, but better yet…there is NOTHING LIKE SEEING A WOMAN OUT OF CONTROL WITH PASSSION! It’s my secret weapon that has NEVER FAILED!!!

  • 3 barbilynn // Sep 28, 2008 at 10:19 am

    I absolutely LOVE anal sex. It really offers me the most satisfying orgasms. A sexual romp isn’t complete for me without finishing with deep, thrusting anal sex with a hard penis. The feelings of fullness are overwhelming. Thankfully, I live in a relatively isolated area. I scream with delight when being penetrated anally. When I’m in a hotel, though, it’s a real problem as to the noise. When I don’t have a partner, I use a 3 prong ‘rabbit’ to fulfill my needs.

  • 4 nottrusting // Sep 20, 2008 at 3:06 am

    The comment about men losing it hit home. I tried twice and neither partner would use lube or stop when I scremed in pain. I would really like to try, but don’t trust men to STOP.

  • 5 Amanda // Jul 17, 2008 at 4:50 am

    She never implied that “women who don’t enjoy it, aren’t doing it right.”

    She said, and I quote “Women who don’t enjoy anal sex, are probably doing it wrong.”

    PROBABLY.
    Not definitely.

    Next time, pay attention, and read the whole thing.. word for word

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