What Golf Can Tell You About A Man

by Teri Evans

GOLF

What to look for: Chivalry

Red flag: Temper

Considered the ultimate gentleman’s sport, a round of golf will showcase a man’s manners. For example, if you’re teetering from the heft of your golf bag, does he offer to carry it? It’s all about etiquette on the golf course.

“If you look at the top players in golf, they’re very elegant. It’s not a rough and sweaty sport,” says April Beyer, a Los Angeles-based matchmaker and dating coach “This is where a man reveals how much of a gentleman he is.”

If he’s losing, notice whether he throws a tantrum or is a good sport. If you’re the novice, pay attention to whether he steps back to help you.

“I’ve even seen people over-penalize themselves to fall behind so they can be on the same level as the other person,” says Lisa Clampitt, President of VIP Life, a matchmaking service in New York City. “I think that’s a sweet gesture.”

As one of the most mentally challenging sports, golf also requires focus. If your date loses concentration fast or gives up too easily—not a good sign.

“If he’s going to give up on the golf course, he’s going to give up on you,” Beyer cautions.