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Wife Wants A Threesome
Dan and Carrie give non-monogamy advice.
by Dan Eldridge
Carrie:: We know the wife wants spontaneity – or so she says – while the husband wants more control. I think they can find an element of both by trying out adult dating sites, like www.AdultFriendFinder.com. That way, there will still be some element of surprise, but both Karen and her husband can be in control by selecting a girl together, and by laying out any ground rules they may have.
They might also consider trying a few swingers clubs. Most of these places are no-pressure clubs, and considering the husband has been hurt in the past, it might not be a bad idea to get started a little slower this time around. By going this route, they can be sure nobody’s getting hurt in the process.
Many couples interested in swinging start out by just making out with someone else together. Slowly, they might work their way up to having sex with this other person. And eventually, they may even move towards a relationship.
But if these two really do love each other, like Karen says, and if they really do have a great sex life together, like Karen says, then there’s absolutely no reason they should feel the need to rush into anything.
Send your questions about non-monogamy to eldridge@ymail.com.
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1 Jim // Nov 16, 2008 at 9:31 am
Uhm… she enjoys having sex with her best friend more than her husband? Her best friend hasn’t told HER husband? Have they considered divorcing their husbands and marrying each other? Yeesh. If nothing else, I’d start with being honest with the other girl’s husband, for crying out loud.
2 judyjerome // Sep 23, 2008 at 10:08 pm
yes i think it is a wonderful idea to try !It is really wonderful and thrilling to read about people finding all kinds of ways to up the ante when going into heat and going after a thrilling orgasm.
judy
3 Wow // Aug 5, 2008 at 6:29 pm
Yeah, she’s not being honest with herself… about the friend
My gut says - Why would someone be OK with their wife getting back into an on-going (back together not hookup right) sexual relationship with their ex-boyfriend?
Perhaps I’m not fluent with the dynamics of more open relationships, but he is still her primary partner, and her enjoying sex *more* with her friend just seems out of place.
It’s not like there is a mention of other third parties in play… it’s all about this specific woman, who she was in a relationship with before, who is now only? her best friend, but they have included previously, and now wants something more ongoing (but hasn’t told her own husband)… which sounds like a lot more than she is stating here [did she marry the wrong person?]