Spanking For Beginners

Advice on how to spank and get spanked.

by Jessica Wakeman

It’s not often that thanks to Victorian-era erotica, a 15-year-old girl experiences a sexual epiphany. But that’s exactly what happened to Katherine* during her sophomore year of high school.

When her debate team stopped at a bookstore on an out-of-town trip, a friend purchased a book of 19th century sex stories. You know what happens next: on the bus ride home, a wide-eyed Katherine pored over one tale about a man and his female servant.

This sexcapade, though, had a special twist: it involved a lot of spanking.

“I thought, ‘Oh my God, this is an actual thing! I’m not the only one who thinks this is interesting!’” Recalls Katherine, a 41-year-old photographer in New Mexico. She’s thought about spanking since she was a little girl, but it wasn’t until she became aroused reading that story that she wanted to be spanked by a man in bed.

Women like Katherine aren’t alone: lots of people are into love taps—over-the-knee or tangled up in intercourse, one item on the foreplay buffet or the main event. “For some people, a good hard smack is going to bring nerve endings to life,” says Dr. Yvonne Fulbright, sexologist and author of Touch Me There: A Hands-On Guide to Your Orgasmic Hot Spots.

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1 curtis // Nov 1, 2008 at 5:02 pm

my god i love getting spanked by my girlfriend i love going over her knee she pulls down my pants and underwear and gives me a hard spanking then it is my turn i give her a hard spanking the same way

2 RON // Oct 28, 2008 at 8:40 pm

I always had thoughts about spanking they always were very erotic,i’m 44 and it wasn’t until i experienced spanking with my ex-wife it always led to very exciting well i think you get it.I Wish there was a site for spankers or spankees to chat and share stories.

3 Stevie // Oct 28, 2008 at 6:56 am

I too have had a spanking fetish since I was little. It’s amazing to see how many people are into it as well.

And on a side note, you have no idea how much that Spring Awakening reference on the second page made my day. Kudos to you. ^^

4 Susan // Oct 7, 2008 at 10:27 am

It is always interesting to learn just what the actual stimilus was, which resulted in one becoming actually ready to follow their passion and get over a lap as an adult.